Please do not donate money to Asia Carrera. - GoFuckYourself.com

Mr. Soul · 06-12-2006, 01:24 PM

I posted this in another thread...

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How the fuck can you be a father of two babies and not have life insurance? That's fucking insane. I'll bet he had a brand new jeep though.

I feel bad for her loss but I'm really getting sick of these pornstars wasting their money while having KIDS and no insurance, in a country where having insurance is probably the most imporant aspect of adulthood, especially when you're a parent. I would live in a fucking one bedroom appartment in the ghetto before going one day without health and life insurance. I know guys who work jobs making way less than she does who support their famillies and have insurance. They just don't have nice cars, fancy clothes, big screen TVs, expensive vacations, etc. I feel sorry for her loss and I feel terrible for two kids who have to grow up without a dad, but I don't feel sorry for her financial situation. I'm angry at her and her late husband for being such irresponisble parnets and blowing thousands of dollars on themselves before protecting their children.

Don't donate money to this women. Send your money to a war widdow in some devestated African country who have never had an option of protecting their children. There are billions of people on this earth who have never had a chance at a good life, and could use your money a lot more than she could.

L-Pink · 06-12-2006, 01:27 PM

stickyfingerz · 06-12-2006, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Soul

I posted this in another thread...

Stfu you troll. You have no idea what may have happened in their lives to make them where they are financially. Its up to whoever is donating to make their decision. What puts you in a position to judge? Fucking troll.

camouflaged123 · 06-12-2006, 01:28 PM

very true...i totally agree with your views

Platinum Lantern · 06-12-2006, 01:37 PM

interesting opinion

xNetworx · 06-12-2006, 01:41 PM

Heartless. You are saying help somebody in Africa before helping a pregnant American female widow in our industry? You should have been aborted

Mr. Soul · 06-12-2006, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by pimpporn

Heartless. You are saying help somebody in Africa before helping a pregnant American female widow in our industry? You should have been aborted

Of course. People in Africa need help a lot more than she does. People in Africa have nothing. Literally. Of no fault of their own. If you were born in most parts of Africa you would be poor and starving too, and I'd rather help you than a middle class women who spent money on herself before protecting her children. I would consider you heartless for not caring about people just because they are born somewhere far away from you.

BobG · 06-12-2006, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Soul

Of course. People in Africa need help a lot more than she does. People in Africa have nothing. Literally. Of no fault of their own. If you were born in most parts of Africa you would be poor and starving too, and I'd rather help you than a middle class women who spent money on herself before protecting her children. I would consider you heartless for not caring about people just because they are born somewhere far away from you.

this is our group though man, we're suppose to help eachother out.

GatorB · 06-12-2006, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by BobG

this is our group though man, we're suppose to help eachother out.

can I have $10,000 then? help a brotha out.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by BobG

this is our group though man, we're suppose to help eachother out.

She is really not one of our group how often has she been on GFY?

Mr. Soul · 06-12-2006, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BobG

this is our group though man, we're suppose to help eachother out.

There are probably over a million people involved in the porn industry at one level or another. I don't know her from Adam.

GatorB · 06-12-2006, 01:50 PM

Well her hubby's website is still selling his nutrition stuff. Isn't that making any money?

http://www.donlemmon.com/

sherie · 06-12-2006, 01:52 PM

The children are innocent and should not have to suffer because of the mistakes of their parents IMO. It's entirely up to the indiviual, no need for you to go on an anti-donation crusade.

fallenmuffin · 06-12-2006, 01:53 PM

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Get out and pick a pocket or two.
You've got to pick a pocket or two, boys,
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bobbyjuly · 06-12-2006, 01:54 PM

Let the fans support her. If she is not involved on GFY board, why you guys worry about that.

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Originally Posted by tony404

She is really not one of our group how often has she been on GFY?

polish_aristocrat · 06-12-2006, 01:54 PM

I havent really read into this, all I know is some famous pornstar lost her husband.
oh well, as the poster said, she probably blew thousands of dollars into expensive cars and clothes, so I agree, no reason to donate at all

if anything, I'd donate some small amount to some unlucky GFY'er ( webmaster, not pornstar ) if i knew and liked him and if the situation was also slightly different

Nismo · 06-12-2006, 01:56 PM

Am I suppose to help someone who has probably made millions in the porn industry? I think its in bad taste to immediately start asking for donations when your spouse died that same day. I know she is probably not in her right frame of mine and might be in shock, but still I will not be donating.

QuaWee · 06-12-2006, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by pimpporn

Heartless. You are saying help somebody in Africa before helping a pregnant American female widow in our industry? You should have been aborted

How do you compare a pornstars life to a typical Africans life?

SuckOnThis · 06-12-2006, 01:57 PM

Not everyone qualifies for life insurance or it is extremely expensive if you have any health issues. Same goes for health insurance.

polish_aristocrat · 06-12-2006, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BobG

this is our group though man, we're suppose to help eachother out.

some gay pornstar in Russia got HIV, let's send him a few $ k's for the treatment...

GatorB · 06-12-2006, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SuckOnThis

Not everyone qualifies for life insurance or it is extremely expensive if you have any health issues. Same goes for health insurance.

He was a fitness guru and 37 so I'm sure his life insurance would not have been that expensive. If you can afford fancy cars, motorcyles, boats, houses etc then you can afford life insurance and health insurance.

fallenmuffin · 06-12-2006, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

some gay pornstar in Russia got HIV, let's send him a few $ k's for the treatment...

Agreed. If start where does it stop. I also agree with bobbyjuly. Let her fans support her. The whole pity thing could equal a nice bankroll. But I wouldn't donate to someone who had tons of money and now is high and dry.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by SuckOnThis

Not everyone qualifies for life insurance or it is extremely expensive if you have any health issues. Same goes for health insurance.

Then you give up other shit to have it, he looked like he was a very healthy guy so I cant see him not being able to get life insurance. The problem is people put it off, now if its just you alone or you and your wife I can see that but once you have kids its priority one.

Peaches · 06-12-2006, 02:02 PM

I find it interesting when people find the need to tell others who they should and should donate THEIR OWN money to.....

If you don't want to donate, don't. If you do want to donate, do. Pretty simple concept.

BiggleJones · 06-12-2006, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by pimpporn

Heartless. You are saying help somebody in Africa before helping a pregnant American female widow in our industry? You should have been aborted

Uhhh...Yea..thats what he's saying. And I agree 100%. My father died when I was 2 and guess what? No one donated money to my Mom. She survived off of the social security that she received for my brother and I (the same Social Security that Asia Carrera will most likely recieve). She even stayed home and didn't work until I started school, two years later. It is horrible what happened to her and her childen, no ones denying that. But there are millions of people all over the world that could use this money more than Asia Carrera.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

I find it interesting when people find the need to tell others who they should and should donate THEIR OWN money to.....

If you don't want to donate, don't. If you do want to donate, do. Pretty simple concept.

I thought you were done with adult dont you have studying to do ? lol

Kevsh · 06-12-2006, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Soul

Of course. People in Africa need help a lot more than she does. People in Africa have nothing. Literally. Of no fault of their own. If you were born in most parts of Africa you would be poor and starving too, and I'd rather help you than a middle class women who spent money on herself before protecting her children. I would consider you heartless for not caring about people just because they are born somewhere far away from you.

When's the last time you donated to Africa?

Peaches · 06-12-2006, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

I thought you were done with adult dont you have studying to do ? lol

Tony, you've asked me this before and I've answered it before. I still have a lot of free sites. Hell, even though I no longer work for WEG I probably make more money in adult than you do

Again for the short bus crowd: I'm going to school, I'm investing in real estate, I'm traveling, I'm having fun - but I still have adult sites which are mine - I haven't contracted out to work for anyone since WEG nor do I plan to.

Jace · 06-12-2006, 02:07 PM

um...she is asking for donations from her fans, if you don't wanna donate or don't agree with it, then move on, stop obsessing on it.

she made a mistake, and should she be punished for that?

I dont' have life insurance, but I do need to get it...but I would hate to ask for help and be belittled because of my dumb choices in life

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Tony, you've asked me this before and I've answered it before. I still have a lot of free sites. Hell, even though I no longer work for WEG I probably make more money in adult than you do

Again for the short bus crowd: I'm going to school, I'm investing in real estate, I'm traveling, I'm having fun - but I still have adult sites which are mine - I haven't contracted out to work for anyone since WEG nor do I plan to.

I was kidding no reason to get nasty.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Jace

um...she is asking for donations from her fans, if you don't wanna donate or don't agree with it, then move on, stop obsessing on it.

she made a mistake, and should she be punished for that?

I dont' have life insurance, but I do need to get it...but I would hate to ask for help and be belittled because of my dumb choices in life

If its you and your wife you really dont need life insurance to tell you the truth. If you die let her work not party lol

Fizzgig · 06-12-2006, 02:10 PM

This guy's just a European Lee wannabe.

Peaches · 06-12-2006, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

I was kidding no reason to get nasty.

Merely responded to your question - for the second or third time

he-fox · 06-12-2006, 02:11 PM

Sad thing, especially for the kids. I know that, I lost my father, too.
But I can't stop myself to say this:
Donate to ASIA or to AFRICA?...this is the question

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Merely responded to your question - for the second or third time

Im sorry I dont keep track and I was just teasing.No you were being nasty saying I probably make more than you. Considering the time you have been adult compared to me if you didnt you would be quite the failure.

polish_aristocrat · 06-12-2006, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jace

um...she is asking for donations from her fans, if you don't wanna donate or don't agree with it, then move on, stop obsessing on it.

she made a mistake, and should she be punished for that?

I dont' have life insurance, but I do need to get it...but I would hate to ask for help and be belittled because of my dumb choices in life

you're a perfect example of a person who I could donate to some small amount of money if that was really very needed, because I like you from GFY ( even though I dont know you )

but the whole idea of asking for donations is IMO kinda stupid

lets say person A and person B make the same amount of money
person A is smart, renponsible, carefully plans her spendings, arranges retirement, insurance etc
person B blows money on cars, jewerly, clothes and parties

when some accident happens, person A has her insurance, or some funds sitting in a special bank account for emergency

while person B spontaneusly asks for donations which help her overcome this situation and then most likely she comes back to her previous lifestyle

personally I have absolutely no sympathy for person B

Fizzgig · 06-12-2006, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

She is really not one of our group how often has she been on GFY?

The question is, how many GFYer's have profited from her work? I'm sure most of the people who did paid fair value, and are under no ethical obligation to help out if they don't want to.

We (my husband and I) feel a moral obligation to help out people in need when we're able. When we were in trouble, a lot of people helped us out without asking anything in return, without caring whether it was because of mistakes on our part or because of natural disasters. One of those people was Bill Severs (bjjb), who passed away recently. We were fortunate in being able to return the favor shortly before his death, but his generosity will be remembered for all our lives and passed on again and again.

We don't need anyone to tell us who we should help and who we shouldn't; all we want to know is whether it's a real need or not.

bdld · 06-12-2006, 02:27 PM

i think people can find better things to do with their money than donating to a porno woman.

Peaches · 06-12-2006, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Fizzgig

The question is, how many GFYer's have profited from her work? I'm sure most of the people who did paid fair value, and are under no ethical obligation to help out if they don't want to.

We (my husband and I) feel a moral obligation to help out people in need when we're able. When we were in trouble, a lot of people helped us out without asking anything in return, without caring whether it was because of mistakes on our part or because of natural disasters. One of those people was Bill Severs (bjjb), who passed away recently. We were fortunate in being able to return the favor shortly before his death, but his generosity will be remembered for all our lives and passed on again and again.

We don't need anyone to tell us who we should help and who we shouldn't; all we want to know is whether it's a real need or not.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:30 PM

this is a discussion forum, if anyone bases what they should or shouldnt do based on gofuckyourself thats a problem within itself lol

Peaches · 06-12-2006, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bdld

i think people can find better things to do with their money than donating to a porno woman.

I donate to a lot of places that many would consider better or worse than donating to a "porno woman". Who cares? It's my money. It goes where I want it to go and doesn't go where I don't want it to go.

And remember, she asked for this ON HER WEBSITE. She hasn't gone public begging.

tASSy · 06-12-2006, 02:31 PM

sorry to interrupt, was she trying to take donations via paypal? i bet they wouldn't like that much seeing as how they don't take porn star dollars.

Hawkeye · 06-12-2006, 02:31 PM

I'm sure Jessica Steinhauser will find a new schmuck to take care of her kids and pay her bills.

tony286 · 06-12-2006, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by tASSy

sorry to interrupt, was she trying to take donations via paypal? i bet they wouldn't like that much seeing as how they don't take porn star dollars.

I dont think that can be considered adult just giving money even if she is a pornstar they arent getting anything adult in return for that.

Fizzgig · 06-12-2006, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by tony404

this is a discussion forum, if anyone bases what they should or shouldnt do based on gofuckyourself thats a problem within itself lol

I must agree.

Sly · 06-12-2006, 02:40 PM

I haven't been paying attention. Have no idea what happened. Any loss is unfortunate of course. Is she the one asking for donations? If my spouse just died I think the last thing on my mind would be money, much less a donation run. Hell, if somebody in my family just died period the last thing on my mind would be money and I would have to be absolutely crazy to expect other random people (strangers) to give up their money.

Either way, if somebody wants to donate, so what?

Dollarmansteve · 06-12-2006, 02:44 PM

Clearly the concept of benevolence is lost on some people, please spare us all the self-righteous rant.

I dont think what she needs is to be taught 'a lesson'. Im sure raising her two children with no husband and father will provide all the pain that is necessary.

Dollarmansteve · 06-12-2006, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bdld

i think people can find better things to do with their money than donating to a porno woman.

I can't even comment on the absurdity of this post.

Jace · 06-12-2006, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

you're a perfect example of a person who I could donate to some small amount of money if that was really very needed, because I like you from GFY ( even though I dont know you )

but the whole idea of asking for donations is IMO kinda stupid

lets say person A and person B make the same amount of money
person A is smart, renponsible, carefully plans her spendings, arranges retirement, insurance etc
person B blows money on cars, jewerly, clothes and parties

when some accident happens, person A has her insurance, or some funds sitting in a special bank account for emergency

while person B spontaneusly asks for donations which help her overcome this situation and then most likely she comes back to her previous lifestyle

personally I have absolutely no sympathy for person B

if I am not mistaken though, Asia Carerra has not made a movie or been in the adult industry in years...she was a stay at home mom

so, whlie I can see what you are saying, she really has nothing now....and kids to support. I think she just kept her little free site open because she had a lot of fans and friends that loved hearing from her...kind of like a blog

she really hasn't had the "lifestyle" that you think she did in a long time, and even when she was in the industry she wasn't your typical industry girl....she didn't work a whole hell of a lot and was very wise with her money

Pandemos · 06-12-2006, 02:55 PM

If I had any money, this topic would make me want to give some to Asia even more.

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polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,381	I havent really read into this, all I know is some famous pornstar lost her husband. oh well, as the poster said, she probably blew thousands of dollars into expensive cars and clothes, so I agree, no reason to donate at all if anything, I'd donate some small amount to some unlucky GFY'er ( webmaster, not pornstar ) if i knew and liked him and if the situation was also slightly different __________________ I don't use ICQ anymore.

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Nismo Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 4,977	Am I suppose to help someone who has probably made millions in the porn industry? I think its in bad taste to immediately start asking for donations when your spouse died that same day. I know she is probably not in her right frame of mine and might be in shock, but still I will not be donating. __________________ i buy massive xxx dating traffic.

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xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	Heartless. You are saying help somebody in Africa before helping a pregnant American female widow in our industry? You should have been aborted

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SuckOnThis So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: In my head Posts: 6,844	Not everyone qualifies for life insurance or it is extremely expensive if you have any health issues. Same goes for health insurance.

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Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	I find it interesting when people find the need to tell others who they should and should donate THEIR OWN money to..... If you don't want to donate, don't. If you do want to donate, do. Pretty simple concept.

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Jace FBOP Class Of 2013 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: bumfuck, ky Posts: 35,562	um...she is asking for donations from her fans, if you don't wanna donate or don't agree with it, then move on, stop obsessing on it. she made a mistake, and should she be punished for that? I dont' have life insurance, but I do need to get it...but I would hate to ask for help and be belittled because of my dumb choices in life

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he-fox Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Playa del Carmen, Mexico Posts: 2,884	Sad thing, especially for the kids. I know that, I lost my father, too. But I can't stop myself to say this: Donate to ASIA or to AFRICA?...this is the question

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bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	i think people can find better things to do with their money than donating to a porno woman.

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tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	this is a discussion forum, if anyone bases what they should or shouldnt do based on gofuckyourself thats a problem within itself lol

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Hawkeye Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,291	I'm sure Jessica Steinhauser will find a new schmuck to take care of her kids and pay her bills.

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Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,218	I haven't been paying attention. Have no idea what happened. Any loss is unfortunate of course. Is she the one asking for donations? If my spouse just died I think the last thing on my mind would be money, much less a donation run. Hell, if somebody in my family just died period the last thing on my mind would be money and I would have to be absolutely crazy to expect other random people (strangers) to give up their money. Either way, if somebody wants to donate, so what? __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Fully Managed VPS, Daily Backups Included - Starting at $25. Contact for more info. Sell me your: Paysites and Hosting Company. Buy my: Aged Domains and Sites

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Dollarmansteve Confirmed User Join Date: May 2005 Location: T.O. Posts: 2,849	Clearly the concept of benevolence is lost on some people, please spare us all the self-righteous rant. I dont think what she needs is to be taught 'a lesson'. Im sure raising her two children with no husband and father will provide all the pain that is necessary. __________________ I died.

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