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Old 08-05-2004, 02:32 AM   #1
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I'm forced to get out of this biz - People i am working with, please read.

About a week ago i posted this thread:

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...t=UltraS onic

At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
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Old 08-05-2004, 02:35 AM   #2
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Old 08-05-2004, 02:43 AM   #3
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damn thats fugged up..

note to self... dont get married
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Old 08-05-2004, 02:47 AM   #4
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Damn man. I hate hearing stories like this. I wish you the best of luck and I hope the the damage done can be pieced back together.
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Old 08-05-2004, 02:53 AM   #5
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well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!
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Old 08-05-2004, 02:54 AM   #6
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Old 08-05-2004, 03:25 AM   #7
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well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!
I will FIGHT, what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.
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Old 08-05-2004, 03:44 AM   #8
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thanks for letting me know, and the best of luck for the future.
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Old 08-05-2004, 03:45 AM   #9
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Old 08-05-2004, 03:52 AM   #10
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Good luck with the future. I know it seems like your world is crashing down on you, but take it one step at a time. Things will work out in the end.
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Old 08-05-2004, 03:53 AM   #11
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damn man, that definately sucks

I agreee, good luck with everything man.
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Old 08-05-2004, 04:06 AM   #12
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Damn, that sucks
Fight back and good luck for the future
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Old 08-05-2004, 04:43 AM   #13
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That's awful!
Keep your chin up babe, all the best of luck!
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Old 08-05-2004, 05:01 AM   #14
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stay strong...

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Old 08-05-2004, 07:17 AM   #15
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damm that sucks man, good luck with your kids
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:21 AM   #16
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:22 AM   #17
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:23 AM   #18
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Bummers good luck on everything.
Why quit, can't you do both?
Do adult part time
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:36 AM   #19
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good luck..sorry about your horrible ex..but u'r doing the right thing by getting out of the biz if u plan on fighting for those kids..just remember what's best for the kids is the most important. People lose sight of that when they start fighting for custody. It becomes a war and it's ugly, and they forget that they're fighting over kids not property.
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Old 08-05-2004, 07:49 AM   #20
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Im sorry to hear that... just be strong and do what you think is right, justice will prevail.
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Old 08-05-2004, 08:21 AM   #21
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I don't know you, but always hate to here stuff like this.

It's always toughest on the children. Make sue that you fight the good fight and if at all possible, try to avoid any confrontation or negative words in front of the kids. Try to avoid talking ill of their mother if you have the kids, no matter how you feel about her.

It's a good idea to keep an arm's length from the industry while fighting as well. It can be damaging to be associated with this industry in child custody fights.

Best of luck to you.
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:12 AM   #22
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How much money did she get away with?
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:14 AM   #23
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best of luck to you, like you said what doesnt kill you will make you stronger, keep your wits about you and you will come out on top of the situation.
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:16 AM   #24
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Bummer but good luck, UltraSonic
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:19 AM   #25
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Dude Don't fucking quit, shit I have custody of my two babies last month lost my house and a lot of other bad shit happened way worse and im hanging in!! I've always been told what you lose only makes you stronger!! Just start over start with simple shit like galleries or anything.. FUCK if you need hosting or anything to help out hit me up...



Reason I am so strong about this is cause it happened to me and im bouncing back but this time a lot stronger...


Peace and good luck bro
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damn dude...sorry to hear
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:22 AM   #27
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We managed to get custody from my husband's ex-wife, so it isn't impossible. We just had a more stable, safe home.
If there is anything I can do, please let me know!
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:23 AM   #28
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This is creazy dude! I mean 1st with the cops then your wife! I would sue the cops, but i would give a shit about the wife. I think marriage is stupid, and will always fail. So my advice, never get married. EVER (seriously, i wont).
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:27 AM   #29
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That is absolutely awful man - all I can say is keep your wits about you and don't give up - Karma has a funny way about it - and your ex - will definitely get hers in the end. Either way man - good luck - I hope the best for you.
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:36 AM   #31
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thanks for sharing, this will sure be a learning experience who ever reads this thread! goodluck
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Old 08-05-2004, 09:44 AM   #32
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I know that it has to be hard time for you now, but remeber "all wrong for something good", hope you will feel better and thing will clered up as soon as possible.

wish you the best and good luck with all and now, cheer up
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:32 AM   #33
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Thank you all for the kind words.

I'm at an internetcafé right now, thought i'd check what's going on outhere.
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:33 AM   #34
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thanks for letting me know, and the best of luck for the future.
I hope we can still get our stuff going once i get back into the biz, i liked working with you.
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Old 08-09-2004, 07:38 AM   #35
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Dude Don't fucking quit, shit I have custody of my two babies last month lost my house and a lot of other bad shit happened way worse and im hanging in!! I've always been told what you lose only makes you stronger!! Just start over start with simple shit like galleries or anything.. FUCK if you need hosting or anything to help out hit me up...



Reason I am so strong about this is cause it happened to me and im bouncing back but this time a lot stronger...


Peace and good luck bro
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I can't bro........ i need every dime i have. I just don't have anything left to spend on hosting/content/etc........

I wouldn't mind starting out with galleries......... hell, i can do that 12 hours a day, i don't mind but the thing is, i lost everything... 3 computers wich i eventually will get back but that doesn't help me now and like i told before, i'm not gonna spend the last i have buying a pc/etc.... i'm keeping it all to put up a fight for my kids.
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God that's fucked up. Women are strange sometimes, she might just crawl back in a few weeks.. don't let her though. Do your thing.
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God that's fucked up. Women are strange sometimes, she might just crawl back in a few weeks.. don't let her though. Do your thing.
She won't get back into my life, never again. I'll just do as you say, do my thing. I'll crawl out of my pit and come back twice as hard, i can tell you that
I've always been a fighter...... fall down, crawl back up, don't look back and move on.... that's my moto.
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About a week ago i posted this thread:

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...t=UltraS onic

At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
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sorry to hear that man. I went through a big custody/divorce fight last year. All I know that if it wasn't for porn, I wouldn't have been able to outlast the bitch with lawyers fees
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well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!
But a mother that empty the bank account of the guy ???
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About a week ago i posted this thread:

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At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
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Old 08-09-2004, 08:00 AM   #46
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dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
I was wondering when i was gonna get those replies...... think of it what you want.
I'm not here to ask for any favours or anything...... i just think it's fair for those i was working with that they get a heads up on things.
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Old 08-12-2004, 07:03 AM   #47
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I was wondering when i was gonna get those replies...... think of it what you want.
I'm not here to ask for any favours or anything...... i just think it's fair for those i was working with that they get a heads up on things.
its no different than when you told your boss you couldn't work the fry-0-lator an more because you lost your dog.

save the sob story. you don't quit your job because your wife leaves you.
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